My friend Rachel asked me the following question the other day.
"Krista Vega how you do maintain the motivation to stay healthy. I did WW before my wedding and had great success...but afterwards couldn't stay motivated to go to the meetings and stick to the plan. It all slowly crept back on plus 10 more lbs! Which is why I'm back again....any advicee?"
It's a questions that requires a lot of thought. I am going to try to answer Rachel's question to the best of my ability. I am going to try to do it in 10 easy steps.
How does one Keep Motivated to Stay Healthy
1. Set Goals for Yourself- Every great plan begins with a goal. When you write a goal it takes shape. I had a goal I have always wanted to look good naked. I also knew that I did not want to walk at a 90 degree angle anymore. I had a back condition and the extra weight that I put on was not doing me any good.
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t is Never Too Late To Be The Person That You Want to Be- I realized that I was not the person that I wanted to be. With that said I realized that I was going to need some help. When I began my journey I had no concept of portion control. I joined Weight Watchers to get myself started. (While I am no longer following this plan it was a nice place to begin) With this I also joined a gym that I felt comfortable at. (This is where I give a shout out to the Frederick County YMCA)
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Knowing when to ask for help- There came a point in my weight loss where I had plateaued and became very frustrated with myself. I felt that I was not getting towards my goal. I knew that I needed help.
That is when I decided to sign up for a personal trainer. My goals at the time was not to be healthy it was to be able to look smoking hot naked. Let's be honest as a women don't we all want to look fantastic naked? My asking for help led me to my personal trainer, Brian Hiltbrand.

While I always thought that I needed a Jillian Michael's yell in your face kind of trainer Brian was completely different but exactly what I needed. It is important to have a person that can push you. Prior to Brian I was afraid to enter the "Man Section" of the gym. I thought women were meant to hand out in the cardio section. Brian made me believe that real women bench, do dead lifts, and lift heavy weights. (If you ever consider getting a personal trainer make sure they understand your goals, push you, and grow with you) Brian and I have been together for about 4 years and every workout is just as challenging as it was on my first day at 250 pounds. It's because of Brian that I am willing to try new things. He introduced me to running, Kettle Bells, Crossfit, and lifting. He also encouraged me to push my limits as well as told me when I was pushing to much when I was recovering from ligament reconstruction. Brian also helped me realize that being skinny was not the goal,
being strong and fit is.
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The FAT PHOTO- We all have one. It is the photo that you look at and you are like, "Holy crap I look like I ate myself." This photo is the one you look at when you are about to eat a jar full of peanut butter. It's the photo that says, "Do NOT ENTER the fridge because you never want to be there again." ( I will be posting mine at the bottom of this blog for my before photo)
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Megan is my GO TO girl. Any time I take on
a challenge she is there.
She drove from N.J to Maryland for the
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5. A Workout Buddy- While I am not opposed to working out by myself, it is fantastic to have a wonderful gym buddy. I am not talking about a person who is going to go to the gym and chat with you. I am talking about a person who is going to go and workout with you. Over the last four years my workout buddies have changed for various reasons, but it is great to have someone who can motivate you and that you can motivate. This is where I get the opportunity to give a shout out to the fantastic people in my workout community. (I am missing my running partner, Patty)
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Ashley Vancleef
We workout and push each other. |
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Renee is my workout partner
Two days a week we workout and give it all we got. She also is my cheering squad. |
6. Let things Go/Know When It's Time to Move On- There comes a time in your life that the things you've been doing stop working. At times it is difficult to move on. I had this realization when I struggled at the end with Weight Watchers. There came a point when I was working out so much and I was building so much muscle that the plan was not working for me. I realized that I was actually under eating. I needed a change. A blessing in disguise happened, a billing error. This led me to leave WW and branch out on my own. Eating more protein based and cutting out the processed foods and Smart Ones was one of the best things that happened to me. It also made me realize that I don't have to pay anymore to lose weight. I need to take what I learned and do it on my own. There are also times that you may realize that a certain program is not right, maybe your with the wrong trainer,or maybe your workout buddy is not for you anymore. Change can be a great thing.
At one point I decided I needed a change in my workout and it led me to Operation Boot Camp. This move led me to become a a stronger woman and eventually a Boot Camp Instructor (Check me out former fatty now boot camp instructor)
7. Take Ownership- In the end you need to change yourself. Take ownership when you do something wonderful take ownership, take ownership when you make a mistake. You can not expect the scale to give you great results when you spend your days eating chipotle. Also, do not beat yourself up when you do not get the results that you want. It is important that you understand that losing weight is a journey. It will not happen overnight. It's also a great idea to have more than just the scale measuring your success. I take measurements every two months.
8. Motivate Yourself- Motivate yourself with things that are not food related. When I began to lose weight I motivated myself with a whole bunch of stuff.
Take gift cards and put weight loss goals on the envelopes. Do not open them till you reach your goals.
Treat yourself for certain goals ( I decided that I would go skydiving when I reached my goal. I haven't done it because of the weather but I plan on it)
Treat yourself to different classes- I decided when I lost 25 pounds that I would sign up for a pole dancing aerobics. After taking that class I realized that a pole dancer really needs a strong upper body to work that pole.
I also treat myself to new and different fitness equipment.
9. Train for something- I find that when I am training for something I am always more focused. I started with a 5k and then I loved to different things. Active.com has events in your area.
10. My trainer once said, "It took 25 years to put on all the weight that you did. It is going to take take time to get the body you want." I think of this quote often when I feel far away from my goal. It causes me to recommit and persevere.
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